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SupraMod Senior Member
 Joined: 12 December 2004
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Mike, yours is a blind faith... i suggest you face the reality check and start telling her, "YES I MIND, but F***, its past. However if you does that again, i will F*** the hell out of you. " Sometimes... some woman have to get such message this way...
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Posted: 30 August 2009 at 2:07pm · IP Logged |
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cosbella Newbie
Joined: 25 August 2009
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love can really blind people. she's really too much . married woman yet still being so loose.
sorry but i really think that she kind of cheap
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Posted: 01 September 2009 at 2:34am · IP Logged |
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the_fallen Moderator
 Joined: 01 April 2007
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Hey Mike, i do believe you're the simple minded guys, but look man, your wife is openly making you wear green cap leh!!
as a man, where's all your dignity gone to?
where did all your pride go to?
after re-reading all the posts from page 1, i do believe you're the house husband type, since you can't win her back, and she's just more like a friend to you already than take her to court.
you stand a 99% chance of winning the case since you got so many witness and the baby is the proof with so many colleagues who can stand on your side.
if you need, i don't mind digging out the articles related to claiming maintenance from other half.
if you ever need it, just let me know, i'll dig it out to show you..man gotta help man.. 
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| 细心，耐心，关心，真心和
爱心是我的五颗心。
Posted: 01 September 2009 at 10:53pm · IP Logged |
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MikeKTH Newbie
 Joined: 31 July 2008
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My wife gave birth to a baby boy early last month and both of them are doing fine. Me, my wife and her bf all agreed that the birth cert of the baby should indicate that i'm the father since i'm the lawfull husband, even though i'm not the biological father.
She and the baby moved back to my house 2 months ago. My life is getting better since. I'm much happier now since i got my wife back and the family is intact again.
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Posted: 20 November 2009 at 6:41pm · IP Logged |
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the_fallen Moderator
Joined: 01 April 2007
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huh??
what the...
you're not the biological dad of the child yet you're so generous to accept your wife and her actions??
while i salute to your deep depths of generosity and acceptance towards your wife, but do you have an idea of how serious the impact will be for you to shoulder the upbringing of her son with her bf?
what if one day the boy grows up and need a change of kidney (touch wood - preparing for the worse so you will not face any other problems in future) only to find out the truth? Or perhaps even a single blood testing at a blood donation drive will reveal the truth..this are things which neither you nor your wife can hide..
what will he think of his family? (reference to today's straits time article of a teenage (girl) and a boy who committed suicide.. kids these days can't accept pressure (i think kids are becoming more of a balloon herd) when faced with too much pressure then they can handle, they just burst, and take the leap and the results - newspaper articles..
while i understand that you really seek to build a warm cozy family for your wife and child, but this ain't the right way..i think you need to find a counsellor.
face the reality and the truth..you can't keep helping your wife to cover for her mistakes..
quoting from a television phrase "it takes 9 lies to cover 1 lie" and in the process of doing so, you only create more distrust among yourself, and the other parties involved.
don't think only short term, think long term and then only will you be able to build your desired perfect warm cozy home.
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| 细心，耐心，关心，真心和
爱心是我的五颗心。
Posted: 21 November 2009 at 10:04am · IP Logged |
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janice33 Newbie
Joined: 25 May 2010
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omigod I read from page 1 to 6. This is unbelievable Mike you make me want to pour a bucket of ice water over your head to wake you up! 
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Posted: 28 May 2010 at 2:17am · IP Logged |
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cherinedh Newbie
Joined: 30 May 2010
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wow kudos, you're actually brave to talk about this..
probably she's not worthy of your love, because if she truly cherishes the marriage, none of these would have happened...
but if you actually bother to sound this out, it goes to show that you still do care and love her and wants to salvage this.
the ones suffering the most are the kids. have you thought of how to explain the situation to them?
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Posted: 30 May 2010 at 11:02pm · IP Logged |
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ShirleyG Groupie
 Joined: 03 May 2008
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Mike, I still think you're great. Your courage and determination is unparallel. Salute.
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Joeywan Newbie
Joined: 31 May 2010
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I don't know what much to say but I can see that you are a real good man.
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Posted: 20 June 2010 at 3:49pm · IP Logged |
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heyyjuliet Groupie
Joined: 19 June 2010
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MikeKTH wrote:
Hi I'm a married man with 2 kids. My marriage is in deep trouble as my wife has move out to stay with another man. I still love her very much and want to win her back and save this marriage. Pls advise.
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Now, what did you do to make her move out? If you didn't do anything, reflect on how much you have contributed to the marriage.. perhaps she felt lonely cause you weren't spending enough time with the family? Talk to her and ask her honestly. Apologize sincerely for the things that may have hurt her, and ask her to come back to you, promise her you'd change. Tell her that the kids miss her. If she agrees, remember to do what you said you would! (Try passionate s*x for a passionate marriage!!;)) If she doesn't, accept that she has already moved on and no longer loves you. Learn to move on and understand that it isn't your fault. All the best! :)
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Posted: 21 June 2010 at 11:24pm · IP Logged |
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