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betrayed Newbie

Joined: 06 July 2010 Posts: 2
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hi ladies, I suspect mine husband is having affairs. I tried talking to him but he denied and I know he is still seening that women. I have given him many chances, but he always deny. Could anyone of u recommend a good PI to me? I want to get the evidence and confront him.
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| Posted: 06 July 2010 at 8:51pm · IP Logged |
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Karen_su Newbie

Joined: 06 July 2010 Posts: 2
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hi I know of a good PI that I have used before. U can give him a call. If u are interested, u can email me at [edited : contact info deleted. betrayed, pm karen instead].
27.104.159.3
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Edited by olaf on 13 July 2010 at 11:56am
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| Posted: 06 July 2010 at 8:59pm · IP Logged |
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the_fallen Moderator

 Joined: 01 April 2007 Posts: 985
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Alternative solution..search for Honey Trappers...there are such professional services in Singapore..whereby a lady is hired to attempt to seduce the guy suspected of playing affairs..
If the guy takes the bait..the proof will than be provided as evidence.
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| 细心,耐心,关心,真心和
爱心是我的五颗心。 Posted: 07 July 2010 at 9:26am · IP Logged |
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betrayed Newbie

Joined: 06 July 2010 Posts: 2
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hi fallen, i don't think i need that, because my husband is really having affair.
i feel it's morally wrong to get a honey trapper, and it should be illegal.
karen, thks, i have called the pi, and will be meeting up with him.
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the_fallen Moderator

 Joined: 01 April 2007 Posts: 985
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TS: Since you already confirmed of his affair..have a PI collect all the evidence..
PS: Honey Trappers are legal in Singapore. I got to know of this kind of service based on a NewPaper Report couple of years back, and their clients are mostly tai-tais if not wives.
Confront him not alone, but together with your parents and parents-in-law..so as to shame him and let him know his mistakes..else he can deny the affair despite the photos with some crappy excuses.
With parents around, it might help to solve the problem (Not full-proof but i think it better than solving it among you and him)
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| 细心,耐心,关心,真心和
爱心是我的五颗心。 Posted: 08 July 2010 at 9:07am · IP Logged |
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olaf Moderator

ShoppingLifestyle Spree HostJoined: 03 April 2004 Posts: 24130
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not implying anything at this point but...
fallen, check out ips here in this thread and also new thread (http://www.shoppinglifestyle.com/forum/forum_posts.asp?title=any-111-ne-got-good-pi-to-recommend-&TID=14112).
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| Dig My Style? click here! Posted: 08 July 2010 at 3:13pm · IP Logged |
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blurry101 Senior Member

 Joined: 28 May 2010 Posts: 776
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Are u leaning towards a divorce? If so, congrats! I can't stand cheaters.
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| Posted: 08 July 2010 at 9:31pm · IP Logged |
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janice33 Newbie

Joined: 25 May 2010 Posts: 83
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There's a catchcheatingspouse.com or something, saw the ad on cabs
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heyyjuliet Groupie

Joined: 19 June 2010 Posts: 423
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I'm sorry that it didn't work out between you and your husband.. hope you will be happy, whatever action you choose to take. :) all the best! :)
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| If only I had you.. Posted: 10 July 2010 at 5:58pm · IP Logged |
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olaf Moderator

ShoppingLifestyle Spree HostJoined: 03 April 2004 Posts: 24130
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H4ze84, have moved ur post here as the other thread will be deleted.
blurry, thank you for informing the starter of the other thread of existence of this thread.
H4ze84 wrote:
The PI in Singapore is not really useful if you eventually want to use it as evidence in a court case (hope it wouldn't come to that). Those show in a movie about photos taking in a hotel room are also not true. They can't do that.
My friend did engaged a PI before but i have no idea who isit. She said the photos that most PI took are just a moment in time. Unless he really did take explicit pictures, they usually don prove anything.
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| Dig My Style? click here! Posted: 13 July 2010 at 11:45am · IP Logged |
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