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the_fallen Moderator
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Rules:
1. If you can't stop yourself from drinking, you are in absolutely no position to stop your gf from drinking.
2. When people are drunk, their mind is blank and their actions are reduced a clean white sheet of paper, meaning brain portion controlling the consciousness and memory are shut down, thus they can't recall anything.
3. You already know your drinking habit is slowing killing you, yet you refuse to change..thus if you want to kill yourself, break up with your gf, for Straits Time news article did mention that a foreign study said bad habits do get passed between partners, where husband and wife is concerned..(somewhere around past 2 week's article) - Vomit blood = stomach got hole, don't stop the bleeding, stomach acid will burn your internal organs and you die.
4. If you don't want your gf to kiss and hug other guys ever again, should you want to drink still, drink but not in front of your gf, only with you buddies, so your gf got no excuse to drink again.
5. It's your fault that your gf is drinking- remember the slogan - if you can't beat them, join them. The same theory applies.
Coz you bring her to drink, so blame yourself and don't push the blame to your innocent gf who wanted to stopped you from drinking with your interest at heart.
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Posted: 06 September 2011 at 10:02pm · IP Logged |
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timie Newbie
Joined: 06 September 2011
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Omg u read my mind i'm the gf who wrote this. Because after what had happen when ever we quarrels he will take out this topic to blame me. I really love him a lot and i didn't know why he love to push the blames to me. He says after this thing happen he very hard 2 trust me but he still try to be with me and eventually it's been 8 mths. After 8 mths 1 nite my fren a guy was drunk call me ask me to meet him i hear his voice i know he's drunk. Then he being to suspect me with my fren. All along I've been staying with him we see each other every night what can i do? He started telling me 2 move back all my things. I get so frustrated so i packed up all my things and he even say ask yr fren who calls u 2 help u move yr things. I'm heart broken i cried badly i can't forget him even he's not a gd guy after all.
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Posted: 06 September 2011 at 10:43pm · IP Logged |
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the_fallen Moderator
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timie wrote:
| Omg u read my mind i'm the gf who wrote this. Because after what had happen when ever we quarrels he will take out this topic to blame me. I really love him a lot and i didn't know why he love to push the blames to me. He says after this thing happen he very hard 2 trust me but he still try to be with me and eventually it's been 8 mths. After 8 mths 1 nite my fren a guy was drunk call me ask me to meet him i hear his voice i know he's drunk. Then he being to suspect me with my fren. All along I've been staying with him we see each other every night what can i do? He started telling me 2 move back all my things. I get so frustrated so i packed up all my things and he even say ask yr fren who calls u 2 help u move yr things. I'm heart broken i cried badly i can't forget him even he's not a gd guy after all. |
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so if that's the case, you just so happened to know the wrong guy..
drop him off completely and find another bf..there will be better guys in the future..but you must first learn how to do a quality control assessment on anyone and every guy that comes along and ask you to get into a relationship with you.
Side track a bit - What happened to the original thread starter's post? Since when did my post response became the thread starter for this topic? x_x
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Posted: 07 September 2011 at 2:01pm · IP Logged |
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hazelnutcookie Groupie
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Side track: yea it feels odd that the_fallen is posting a topic on such things..haha.. was a bit clueless at first. so, the starting post is missing..
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Posted: 07 September 2011 at 6:06pm · IP Logged |
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timie Newbie
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I don't know 
Edited by timie on 08 September 2011 at 10:14pm
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Posted: 07 September 2011 at 8:51pm · IP Logged |
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olaf Moderator
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er why did u pretend to be the guy for the original post? wats ur motive?
ps. for future posts, kindly break ur writings into paragraphs and ensure required punctuation marks are there. it will make for less tedious reading, compared to one lump chunk.
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Posted: 07 September 2011 at 10:12pm · IP Logged |
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the_fallen Moderator
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timie wrote:
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don't worry about male/female thing..
it's a small matter..
just remember 1 thing and you will be fine..
within the SLS community..we only want users to be real, genuine in their post, their identity and their contents must be real..
thus the strict guidelines that we are enforcing..
it's just that i myself felt weird when i read the post..since it was strange for a guy to admit their mistakes especially by shooting themselves in the foot with telling the world about it..
it's something that majority of the guys (who are shallow) will never ever do..to save their pride and ego..those typical mcp..
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| 细心，耐心，关心，真心和
爱心是我的五颗心。
Posted: 09 September 2011 at 10:33pm · IP Logged |
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trinsleynewton Newbie
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well, i think finding a new partner heal the heart up to some extent. if some one has left you then don't bother to miss him more. keep going in your life with new things.
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Posted: 27 September 2011 at 3:02pm · IP Logged |
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