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phijko82 Newbie
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B is someone I know recently. He have pay me lots of attention but lately, he doesn't seem to be.
I have a feeling that something is wrong some where. I do not know what goes wrong. Is it him or is it me or even is both of us?
Recently especially since last week, he had stopped giving me the attention that he used to. He stopped showering me with care and concern.
I know he is busy but in the past, no matter how busy he is, he will still text me or show his care and concern. I have a strong feel that he is trying to distance me away.
He had seemed to be a stranger to me whenever he replied to my texts. I admit that I enjoyed the way we interact.
I enjoyed our tele-conversation and our chats using Whatsapp. Feel wanted to find out but wondering should I email/text him on what I have observed these days or should I observe further till he completed his studies? 
Edited by phijko82 on 21 December 2011 at 1:35pm
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Posted: 12 December 2011 at 6:28pm · IP Logged |
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loveyou1hr Senior Member
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hey girl...i know how u feel..im facing a similar problem now too..maybe even worst i dont know. as for ur case, i think u still could drop him ocassional texts to show him that u still care. no matter how busy he is or whether he replies or not, he still checks his phone right? unless he's lost it. after the end of his busy period, u can still whatapps him again and if he does reply and continues showing concern towards u then probably he's interested..if not,then maybe he only wants to be friends...this is my opinion la..
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Posted: 26 December 2011 at 10:33am · IP Logged |
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phijko82 Newbie
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we stop texting each other since last mon till I texted him greetings & he did reply me with a thank u. the next day, he texted me saying actually he missed me & asked me whether I hv missed him. he even added on saying that he missed me n wanna hug me...when I ask him y he missed me n wanna hug me, he had no ans. what does this imply?
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Posted: 26 December 2011 at 11:19am · IP Logged |
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the_fallen Moderator
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phijko82 wrote:
| we stop texting each other since last mon till I texted him greetings & he did reply me with a thank u. the next day, he texted me saying actually he missed me & asked me whether I hv missed him. he even added on saying that he missed me n wanna hug me...when I ask him y he missed me n wanna hug me, he had no ans. what does this imply? |
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A thank you, in this case as a late reply or towards somebody whom you may have feeling give a fake love feeling..
A person in love shouldn't say Thanks, but rather, a simple Hug or Love word will do.
Thank You sounds too friend/stranger like.
Moreover, when he ask you for permission to hug you immediately saying he miss you, than no reply, tells me he is testing you as a potential target for his personal urge only.
He rush on to say miss u and wanna hug u, implies and tells me he is a Desperate, and most likely will get you to bed in less than 1 month if there's any chance..
That to me rings the bell of a fake love signs, just wanting to give "love" in return to satisfy their Male sexual needs.
move forward with such guy with caution..
you can test him out easily..just observe how & where he touch you the next time, and you can easily determine if he love you for who you are OR love you just because most teens have sex already and he just wants to experience it for the first time or once again with a new target.
I may be wrong, but feel free to test him out..guys are very easy to test out..
When people are in love, hugs, kisses comes naturally..he asking for permission shows he's not into you, but rather into the desire of sexual needs only.
Don't pin too much hope on such a guy.
Edited by the_fallen on 27 December 2011 at 12:48am
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phijko82 Newbie
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the_fallen wrote:
phijko82 wrote:
| we stop texting each other since last mon till I texted him greetings & he did reply me with a thank u. the next day, he texted me saying actually he missed me & asked me whether I hv missed him. he even added on saying that he missed me n wanna hug me...when I ask him y he missed me n wanna hug me, he had no ans. what does this imply? |
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A thank you, in this case as a late reply or towards somebody whom you may have feeling give a fake love feeling..
A person in love shouldn't say Thanks, but rather, a simple Hug or Love word will do.
Thank You sounds too friend/stranger like.
Moreover, when he ask you for permission to hug you immediately saying he miss you, than no reply, tells me he is testing you as a potential target for his personal urge only.
He rush on to say miss u and wanna hug u, implies and tells me he is a Desperate, and most likely will get you to bed in less than 1 month if there's any chance..
That to me rings the bell of a fake love signs, just wanting to give "love" in return to satisfy their Male sexual needs.
move forward with such guy with caution..
you can test him out easily..just observe how & where he touch you the next time, and you can easily determine if he love you for who you are OR love you just because most teens have sex already and he just wants to experience it for the first time or once again with a new target.
I may be wrong, but feel free to test him out..guys are very easy to test out..
When people are in love, hugs, kisses comes naturally..he asking for permission shows he's not into you, but rather into the desire of sexual needs only.
Don't pin too much hope on such a guy. |
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He had changed his whatapp status 2 weeks ago and seem got irritated when I asked him. I even notice he kept changing his whatapp status. And the latest one stated "unforgettable merry Christmas day". After seeing it, I feel like asking him whether he had someone in mind cuz before that his status seem hinting someone that he is lonely for bday n xmas & hope someone celebrate for him.
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Posted: 27 December 2011 at 9:49am · IP Logged |
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the_fallen Moderator
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just treat it as your X'mas Gift..
you spotted a playful and dishonest guy..and the signs are showing..
just a tip for all ladies who are still clueless in selecting quality friends/partner.
"if you need to even cast a doubt on that person, it's tell-tale sign that he/she isn't right for you." <regardless of being a fren, partner or others.>
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爱心是我的五颗心。
Posted: 27 December 2011 at 11:01pm · IP Logged |
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loveyou1hr Senior Member
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oh no...but so many guys are playful and dishonest but it doesnt mean they cant be a reasonably okay for a bf right? and for younger guys, i think its normal for them to be alittle playful with the urge to "explore" more? these guys normally when they are older, they tend to be able to settle down more as compared to guys who arent playful when they are younger but secretly has the desire to be the "playful boy". with the secret desire, they're more likely to have affairs ba..im speaking from a lady's point of view..but not to say that i dont fancy an honest and sincere man haha
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phijko82 Newbie
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both of us are already an adult and he is already in his early 30s.
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Marchegreen Groupie
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It's better for you not to go into relationship because the guy didn't seen to be sincere. You can still regards him as your ordinary friends though.
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the_fallen Moderator
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loveyou1hr wrote:
| oh no...but so many guys are playful and dishonest but it doesnt mean they cant be a reasonably okay for a bf right? and for younger guys, i think its normal for them to be alittle playful with the urge to "explore" more? these guys normally when they are older, they tend to be able to settle down more as compared to guys who arent playful when they are younger but secretly has the desire to be the "playful boy". with the secret desire, they're more likely to have affairs ba..im speaking from a lady's point of view..but not to say that i dont fancy an honest and sincere man haha |
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If you accept Playful boys, you're helping such boys to find excuses not to learn to be mature and grow into a Man..
Don't help them find excuses..Learn to teach them and tell them where are the limits and most importantly respect ladies..
Growing up should never be used as an excuse, as it is BASIC Gentleman Behavior
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| 细心，耐心，关心，真心和
爱心是我的五颗心。
Posted: 03 January 2012 at 11:10pm · IP Logged |
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