Joined: 05 January 2013
Well.My boyfriend and I have been together for three years,but we really know each other in these days,before this we live in different cities, at that time we can only contact with each other by phone,and our relationship is very good.
Last month I came here(his place),and we finish the long-distance relationship,at first we living together happily and sweet,we can meet each other everyday except office hours,I felt very satisfied,however,I find many differences between us,and to minimize conflict,I was inclined to compromise,I feel very upset ,I wonder why cant we respect each other,this situation let me feel unequal.
For example,I love shopping online while he don't like,and he never buy sth expensive for me,a little Stingy,isn't he?Yesterday,I feel very cold and fond i have only a sweater(the other is too old),so I surf online shops and happily to fond one I like (url deleted),nice and cheap,isn't it?But i dont have enough maney in my online bank,so i asked he to pay for it,never thought he was reluctant,and said "One sweater is enough,I have only one either,but I never want to buy the other one,I believe you too!!? Er..I have never seen a person so frugality and plain like him,sometimes I appreciate his lifestyle,but I couldn't do that,i want to enjoy my life,OMG i really dont know what should I do , try to change myself to compromise or continue to do what I like?
but where I am wrong in the end!
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Edited by olaf on 08 January 2013 at 4:28am