The secret to really good sex is all about sensual gratification, so tempt and delight your partner with a mix of sensory pleasure through sight, sound, smell, touch and taste:

Sight

Make love with the lights on.

No matter how self-conscious you are about your less-than-toned bits, trust us, he loves to drink in every detail and jiggle of your body. So put your shyness aside and leave one light on (or at least several candles) if you can.

Lock eyes with your guy.

Looking into each other's eyes during sex is both powerful and totally sexy because you can see how good you're making each other feel. Stare into his eyes the next time you're about to have an orgasm and hold his gaze -- it's the ultimate visual connection.

Treat him to a striptease.

"You don't need to be a professional dancer to thrill your man," says Hilda Hutcherson, M.D., author of Pleasure. "The key is to move slowly and seductively in front of him." Remove your clothes one piece at a time, making sure he gets a good view of every part of your beautiful body. When you get down to the last layer, spend some time dancing for him.

Make love in front of a mirror.

Having sex in front of a mirror can feel amazing and naughty -- it's almost like watching yourselves starring in your own erotic film. Try propping one up at the foot of the bed or doing the deed in front of a wall-mounted mirror.