Relationship expert, Jaci Rae, agrees that women shouldn't focus too much on their careers at the expense of other parts of their life: "Don't let the greatest gift on Earth -- children -- pass you by for fame or career. IV fertilization works in some cases, but not all and not always with success. Sadly, the truth is that women do have a ticking time clock and they are also finding that men do as well (although not as short a window as women or with the same devastating results). You can still have your career and have your children at the same time, you just have to give up your time and your body size / shape to do so. Your career won't be there when you are 70, but your family will if you have raised them with love."